WOW!!
My mom has been having a break down all day. She FINALLY admitted everything to me. After 4 months of telling me I am crazy she admitted she was having an afair. She said she loved him too. She told me they “broke up” (or whatever you call it) yesterday because she wont leave my dad. It was pretty shocking that she told me. I was just there for her. She has been crying off and on all day. I just took a 3 hour nap and called her and she is crying again and said “I am talking to daddy can I call you back?” I hope she didn’t tell him.
I am really worried about her because she has been crying since I went over there at 9am. She has been up since 2am so I know she is tired. I know what being tired can do to your emotions.
I was really shocked when she told me that she loved him. I never thought she would be in love with him. It is just weird to me. Most of all no matter what happens is I want her to be happy. It is killing me to see her like this. I am usually the one people are telling “It will be okay Marie.” Not that I am selfish it’s just that I am not a strong person myself so it’s hard to be strong for other people especially someone you love so much. It is hurting me very bad, but I will be there for her no matter what.
I HAVE to be the strong one though because one thing she is worried about is what TJ and I are going to think. She said as much as she loved that guy she loves my brother and I more. She is not really sure what she wants to do as far as staying with my dad or not, but she said it is 100% over with that guy.
March 12th, 2006 at 9:09 pm
Well, at least now she’s admitted to what you knew already. It’s a shame that they both turned it around on you the way they did - I still think that’s wrong, and that they both sorta owe you an apology for it. That may come in time from your mom, probably never from the other guy.
You’re mom will make it through this… it may take time. And I don’t think you should put the weight on your shoulders to be the strong one, I honestly don’t. Just listen and talk to her when she needs it, but don’t feel that you’re responsible for making her feel better about it.
I love love love your comforter!!!!
March 13th, 2006 at 1:20 pm
I’m glad she’s finally admitted it to you though. I agree with Ally aswell, they definitely owe you an apology… they handled things in such a childish way.
You have the cutest apartment! I’m so jealous!
March 13th, 2006 at 7:54 pm
Wow! She must be going through a lot of emotional pain, but at least she admitted it to you. I still hope things work out between your mom and dad.